pelvic pain is common. living with it doesn't have to be.
PELVIC FLOOR THERAPY Pain during sex, pain when you sit, periods that knock you flat, or an ache that never quite leaves. Our pelvic floor therapists find what's actually driving it and build a plan to get you back to feeling like yourself. In person in Stamford and Westport.
YOU’RE NOT ALONEyou're not imagining it.
Pelvic pain is one of the most common things we hear about, and one of the least talked about. Many people spend years being told their tests are normal, that it's just stress, or that it's part of being a woman. Common, yes. Something you just have to accept, no.
Your pelvic floor is a group of muscles that supports your bladder, bowel, and reproductive organs. It's involved in sex, sitting, breathing, and posture. When those muscles get too tight, too weak, or out of sync, the result can be pain that feels like it's coming from somewhere else entirely. The good news: this is very treatable.
SYMPTOMSwhat pelvic pain can feel like
Pain with sex, pain sitting, a constant ache or pressure, painful periods, or bladder and bowel pain. Here's what we see most often. Recognize yourself in more than one? That's very common.
pain with sex
One of the most common reasons people come to see us, and one of the hardest to bring up.
Pain with insertion, deep pain, or burning and stinging at the opening
Pain with tampons or speculum exams
A lingering ache, cramping, or burning afterward
Avoiding intimacy because you're bracing for pain
endometriosis-related pain
Endo is diagnosed and treated medically, but the muscles around it often tighten and guard after years of pain. We help calm that cycle, alongside your medical care.
Severe period cramps that medication doesn't touch
Pain throughout the month that often worsens with your period
Bloating ("endo belly"), low back or hip pain
Pain with sex, often deep
perimenopause + menopause
As estrogen shifts, the tissues of the vulva, vagina, and bladder change too. Real, common, and treatable.
Vaginal dryness, burning, or irritation
Pain with sex that's new for you
More frequent UTIs or bladder urgency
A feeling of pressure or heaviness
tailbone, hip + sitting pain
Pain you'd file under "back" or "hip" is often tied to the pelvic floor.
Pain sitting, especially on hard surfaces
Tailbone pain after a fall or childbirth
A deep ache in the buttock or groin
Pain getting up from sitting
pelvic pain in men
Men have pelvic floors too, and dysfunction there is an often-missed cause of what gets labeled chronic prostatitis.
Pain in the perineum, testicles, or penis
Pain with or after ejaculation, or with erection
Urinary urgency, frequency, or a hesitant stream
Pain when sitting
Pudendal neuralgia
Pregnancy + postpartum pelvic pain
Bladder pain + interstitial cystitis
Vulvodynia + vaginismus
Painful bowel movements + chronic constipation
WE ALSO HELP WITH:
our pelvic floor therapy providers
Dr. Kara Fanelli
DOCTOR OF PHYSICAL THERAPY + CLINICAL SPECIALIST IN WOMEN’S HEALTH PHYSICAL THERAPY
PT, DPT, WCS
Dr. Jodie Lippman
DOCTOR OF PHYSICAL THERAPY
PT, DPT
Kira Sterling
OCCUPATIONAL THERAPIST, CERTIFIED LYMPHEDEMA THERAPIST
OTR/L, CLT
What our patients say
“Wonderful, knowledgeable, and compassionate staff. Kara Fanelli has helped so much - she's the best! Highly recommend!”
“I have loved seeing Jodi during my prenatal & postnatal journey. She helped me connect back to my body and as an athlete feel like myself again.”
“In addition to Dr. Kara Fanelli’s spectacular clinical skills is her exceptional ability to communicate compassionately. I could not feel more comfortable with her.”
“I am so glad I took the leap and scheduled an appointment with Kara! I had been struggling with chronic constipation and found her office through a quick Google search. From the very first visit, Kara provided invaluable education on the pelvic floor, bowel health, sexual wellness, and more. She is incredibly knowledgeable, and it’s clear that she genuinely cares about her patients' well-being.”
ready to get started?
Both of our locations offer pelvic floor therapy with board-certified practitioners. Choose the location (or our virtual offering) that works best for you.
Prefer to talk first? Call 203-658-7850 to set up a brief consultation before booking.